|From the sublime to the ridiculous?

The very inception of this website was born from a profound desire to harness the power of the web and utilize it as a conduit for my boundless creativity and impassioned viewpoints. However, upon deep introspection and self-reflection, I have come to realize that this virtual domain holds a much greater significance in my life. It serves as a harmonious equilibrium, allowing me to reconcile my inherent introversion with the need to amplify my voice amidst the clamour of the virtual social gathering.

Since the advent of finding the love of life, marriage and parenthood, with the arrival of my two cherished daughters and son, my perspective on this website has undergone a transformative shift. It has now become a cherished message board, a digital tapestry woven with heartfelt expressions of love, guidance, and wisdom for my beloved children. Having made the conscious decision to embrace the joys of parenthood later in life, I am acutely aware of the fleeting nature of time and the imperative to leave behind a lasting legacy of my perspectives on the intricate tapestry of our social fabric. While I strive to defy the limitations imposed by mortality, I find solace in the notion of having a contingency plan, an alternate course of action to navigate the uncertain voyage of life.

The literary symphony that permeates the posts on this website encompasses a vast array of topics and viewpoints. It serves as a testament to the kaleidoscope of human experience, woven together with the threads of my own personal insights and reflections. It is important to note that the perspectives shared within these digital pages are solely my own and do not purport to represent any organizations or affiliations, present or future. Additionally, interspersed within these digital realms lie hidden treasures, Easter Eggs, carefully planted as tokens of love for my children and cherished spouse.

The journey of my life thus far has been an odyssey filled with humility, joy, and enlightenment, punctuated by a myriad of significant experiences that have shaped my character. I count myself blessed, not in spite of the mistakes I have made, but because of them. These moments of fallibility and occasional selfishness have served as powerful catalysts for growth, propelling me towards a path of continuous self-improvement. They exist as indelible imprints within the vast mind map of my consciousness, akin to a grand house, an ethereal “gin” palace. Within its hallowed chambers, I find solace, draw strength, hold myself eternally accountable, and most importantly, distil (pardon the pun) the essence of wisdom from the vast tapestry of life.

To provide you with a glimpse into the mosaic of my worldview, I offer you a condensed biography. I hail from the vibrant city of Colombo, Sri Lanka, where I was nurtured by medical parents in a household steeped in the teachings of Buddhism. As the eldest of three siblings, I bear the mantle of responsibility with a touch of what some may call a “superman syndrome,” often finding myself entangled in endeavours to “save” others. It was during my formative years that I delved deep into the profound philosophy of Buddhism, discovering its transformative power beyond the confines of religion or a mere way of life. It serves as the spiritual ether that harmonizes with my scientific approach to understanding our intricate existence within the vast cosmic tapestry.

While my early years were spent in the embrace of Birmingham, England, I have been blessed with the opportunity to immerse myself in the vibrant tapestry of flamboyant cities across the globe (as evidenced by the captivating skyline pictures to the left). As a practitioner of medicine in the traditional sense, I embody the values of patient-centric care and possess a profound understanding of the artistry inherent in the administration of healing. However, it is crucial to acknowledge that my professional journey extends beyond the realm of clinical practice, venturing into the realm of pharmaceutical medicine, where I have assumed senior executive leadership roles. I implore you not to judge me solely on this facet of my life. It is during the throes of the recent pandemic that I have witnessed a lamentable decline in the pursuit of excellence within the realms of business and industry. Far too often, organizations prioritize financial success and stock market growth over the pillars of value, substance, and innovation. Yet, even in the face of such disheartening trends, I find solace and hope in the remarkable resilience and innate goodness of humanity. As I witness the pure innocence and unadulterated honesty of my growing children, I am reminded that they embody the purest principles of our society, principles that we as a collective have strived for throughout the ages, only to abandon when we succumb to false beacons in our adulthood.

Before starting my own family in 2016, self-reliance was paramount, and I could count my friends on one hand. However, as a member of Team Herath (similar to the Hugh Grant character in ‘About a Boy’), I have been compelled to create my own archipelago. When I was an “island,” my health suffered due to heavy smoking and drinking. It is astonishing what love and a small but perfect support network can accomplish in a short span of time. One day, I woke up and decided to quit smoking, and it stuck. No anxieties, no yearning for “just one” because I needed it. Last year, I bid farewell to alcohol. It all comes down to mindset and mindfulness. Admittedly, I do miss a good French Sauvignon, but I’ve discovered a plethora of fantastic non-alcoholic beers out there. Reflecting on it, I question whether society truly needs alcohol. It has never enhanced a moment in my life; it has merely been a pleasant addition.

In order to build our own island nation, I have realized that authenticity is crucial. It requires shedding our armour and embracing a pursuit of excellence akin to my younger self. While I respect those who focus on achieving titles, wealth, health, and accomplishments without questioning the means, I believe that true greatness lies in channelling our collective integrity and nobility to deliver excellence.

You may have noticed my fondness for a certain time lord. In fact, I have my very own TARDIS, although it currently resides in a storage facility in Milton Keynes.

This iteration of my personal website is inspired by the world of “Doctor Who,” making it easier for fellow fans to navigate. Think of it as the interior of the Tardis.

I hope you enjoy this insight into our ‘private bubble’, you are most welcome.

July 2024